Madita Oeming

Conversations about sexuality can be fraught with shame. Today, they are more important than ever. More than 80 percent of 12-year-olds have their own smartphone, and exposure to sexual content is virtually unavoidable in everyday digital life—whether intentional or not. How can parents guide their children to engage with digital media in a competent, safe, and self-determined way? Bans alone often fall short. Education and open dialogue are key. In her new book, *Enlightened Instead of Upset*, Madita Oeming offers concrete advice and addresses key questions: What online risks is my child facing? How do I start an open conversation? How do I help my child protect themselves against cybergrooming and deepfakes?

Madita Oeming is an author, sex educator, and cultural studies scholar. She trains specialists and teachers in how to address sexual content in media. Her book *Porno: Eine unverschämte Analyse* was published in 2023.